A new book of my life has just begun…..Fadhil & Shahidah

“Saya terima nikah Norshahidah Binti Mohd Mahayadin dengan mas kahwinnya RM80.00 tunai” Alhamdulillah in a mere one sentence, I am now officially a husband to Norshahidah Binti Mohd Mahayadin. 1 May 2009 will always be remembered as the magical date for both of us as while the world celebrated labor day, we tied the knot for us to be together eternally. I guess I am the luckiest guy on earth as I have gotten myself a good, beautiful and gorgeous looking wife like her. She completes my life which was rather birzirk earlier. I am now trying to be a good husband to my wife and also to enable her to carry on my next generations.

I remembered this byte of a song sang by Saiful, “Ku juga mencintai dirimu, mengapa sukar ku luahkan, bukan sengaja ku menahan, bibir membeku lidah terkelu, ku juga mencintai dirimu, kau amat sempurna buatku, bukannya saja aku biarkan, kan ucap jua padamu………….” May the flame of love that has been nurtured earlier grows stronger each days as we move on with our new phase of life.

I pray each day that we will always be like this forever. She completes my life with her love and tenderness. I am happy for both of us, in fact the whole world is happy for us actually. Another marriage has taken into place; where a prince and princess tied their knot and sail in the open sea together. I will always love my wife, Norshahidah Mohd Mahayadin till the end of my life. May Allah Bless this marriage with all His Blessings.

From Ara Damansara to Kelana Jaya with love….. no one would ever expect that an acquaintanship in Perodua Kembara club ended with marriage between Ahmad Fadhil Zhafri Ahmad Fuad and his wife Norshahidah Mohd Mahayadin. In fact she is also a member of MyBenz, another club where Ahmad Fadhil Zhafri share his passion in Mercedes Benz cars. Thanks to all friends for all the supports given throughout the relationships. We have gone through a lot before we finally settled down.  Pray for our happiness in the world and the here after…Aminnn…….

Counting The Days

At this point of time, I am nervously counting my days before the big day comes. Sometimes I could not believe that I am going to get married and soon I am going to be someone’s husband. The time has come for me to settle down and start a new chapter in my life. I accepted the fact that I am getting married and the new life which I am going to face after marriage. God must have really loved me that he matched me with someone that accept me as who I am, Nor Shahidah Mohd Mahayadin is just like a guardian angel sent by Him to safeguard me and showers me with love that any man in this whole wide world deserves to get.

As at now, I am still distributing the invitation cards to all friends of mine from school to my latest organization that I joined. I would be happy if they could come to commemorate my big day. Albeit the nervousness and agony before the big day, deep in my heart, I am happy that finally I am settling down and I hope that my life after this would be a lot better than before. I made a vow that should anyone that stand in between my marriage, I will never and ever forgive the person. I maybe soft spoken but when it comes to relationships particularly to safeguard my marriage, I am a man with a principle, those who stand in between me and her, just back off!

There are 5 wishes that I wanted to fulfilled once I get married.

1. To be a better person religiously, spiritually and physically to be a good leader of the family.
2. To have a better life regardless of what situation I am going to face with her.
3. To be a good husband to my wife and a good father to my soon to be kids
4. To have a wonderful family
5. To lead a good example to all of my family members

I need to go now, need to rest due my fever. I hope that these 5 wishes can be fulfilled by a man named Ahmad Fadhil Zhafri Bin Ahmad Fuad. If once he was often being perceived as immature, well he is not as perceived. He is in a transformation process and one day he will emerge and tell the whole world, “I am a new Ahmad Fadhil Zhafri”.

Ahmad Fadhil Zhafri Ahmad Fuad

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Ara Damansara